Going through a divorce in Pennsylvania is often a draining process. You might make decisions that seem reasonable in the moment but could have serious long-term consequences. Being aware of common pitfalls could help you navigate your divorce more effectively, potentially making it easier to protect your interests.
Hiding assets or being dishonest about finances
One serious mistake you can make during the divorce proceedings is being dishonest about your assets and financial situation. Pennsylvania generally requires full financial disclosure from both parties during divorce. This means you must report all income, assets, debts and expenses.
It might sound like a good idea to conceal bank accounts, underreport income or transfer assets to relatives. However, these actions could backfire. Courts take financial dishonesty very seriously. If you hide your assets, you may face penalties, loss of credibility and an unfavorable division of property.
Making major financial decisions during the divorce
During divorce proceedings, you might feel tempted to make significant financial moves. For example, you may consider:
- Selling your property
- Making large purchases
- Changing your spending habits
However, these decisions could complicate your case and affect the final settlement. Pennsylvania generally does not have a statewide automatic order that freezes assets upon filing. But you may petition the court for ‘special relief’ to prevent you from disposing of marital property.
Even without a formal order, the court could later penalize you for wasting, spending or selling marital assets during the equitable distribution process. Consider waiting until after the divorce is finalized before making substantial financial decisions, or consult an attorney who can help you make informed decisions.
Using your child as leverage
Another harmful mistake is involving your child in the conflict. Asking your child to deliver messages to your spouse or speaking poorly about your co-parent in front of them might cause lasting emotional damage.
Pennsylvania courts generally prioritize the best interests of your child when making custody decisions. If you demonstrate behavior that harms your child emotionally, it could affect custody arrangements. You might want to avoid talking about the divorce with your child or involving them in adult conflict.
Your actions protect your interests
Divorce often challenges you in ways few other life events can. However, the decisions you make during this process may affect your future. By staying honest, thinking carefully before acting and protecting your children from conflict, you may create the foundation for a healthier future.